Boudicca’s Briefs:The Views of a Pleb Part 3 On Judging and Fear of Judgement


 witch in macbeth 1972 

It’s wrong to judge a book by its cover isn’t it? But we all do it sometimes, in our haste. To judge someone for the colour of their skin has to be wrong. We’re all capable of racism, whatever colour we are. It doesn’t stop at skin, though. All through my school life, I was judged by some of my village peers because I didn’t speak with the same accent as them. I was hurt because I didn’t understand why they did that and with cruel words too. My mother helped me not to be ashamed of who I was and to speak my mind regardless. I thank her for giving me the strength of character to fight my own battles and not be bullied. I never judged my classmates by the way they spoke, nor for what church they attended but I had a mind of my own and was not afraid to voice my beliefs in public regardless of how they judged me. I said what I thought but without using words to hurt or ridicule others for their ideas.

Growing older, mixing in wider society, I found that I was judged on the basis of what part of the country I came from, what school and university I went to, what job I did, what gender I am, what sort of home I live in, what car I drive, how much I spend on my clothes, what sort of food I eat, who I spend time with and what political party I might choose to support. I lived abroad for two decades outside the pale of modern civilisation where, because of my country of origin, I was judged by a completely different set of rules and often made to feel unwelcome. I returned in middle age to my birth country. I now entered a world of technology I didn’t understand and had to learn quickly how to resist fear of judgement by others on social media. Instead of being so ready to judge others, we should take a little time to get to know them better, even if we can, to live the same lives they do, so we can better understand them.


2 thoughts on “Boudicca’s Briefs:The Views of a Pleb Part 3 On Judging and Fear of Judgement

  1. So true Jane. My parents would have called them selves religious and kind but unfortunately they were full of prejudice and can see my mother now whispering behind her hand “she’s divorced, you know” or “he’s a Jew, you know”. Thankfully I learnt from experience and from nurse training that it is wrong to be judgemental. I would like to think that future generations would be more understanding than my parents, but sadly I do not think that is the case.


  2. Thank you for your comment Hilary, its lovely to have some feedback from visitors and followers but not many take the time as you have done to post comments, even though I can see the numbers who read posts daily and in which countries. Its always nice to hear what people actually think about what I write.


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